The Guardian
· collected 2026-10-07 · by Robert Booth UK technology editor
Mumsnet users discovered a detailed AI prompt on one of its message boards, sparking concerns about the site using artificial intelligence to generate content. The incident occurred after a user posted for advice regarding a family situation involving neurodivergence and illness, only to find an automated response schema guiding how to write a forum post. Mumsnet initially denied using AI but later acknowledged that the prompt originated from their system’s interaction with OpenAI, though they maintained it was meant just to suggest titles rather than full replies. Despite these explanations, users remained skeptical and felt misled about Mumsnet's use of AI technology.
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In early 2023, Mumsnet, a long-standing British parenting forum known for candid family discussions, faced controversy when an AI-generated prompt appeared on its message boards. A user named AmIAComplete had posted about a tense family situation involving a neurodivergent uncle and a sick child but instead of receiving typical responses, encountered detailed instructions suggesting the use of AI to draft replies following specific guidelines. Mumsnet users were upset by this development, expressing feelings such as "really creepy" and "disappointing." This incident sparked speculation among forum members about whether Mumsnet was using AI in its content moderation or posting processes, despite the site's official denial of employing artificial intelligence for such purposes.
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Mumsnet has denied using AI to produce content after detailed instructions to help an AI model write one of its popular “am I being unreasonable” (AIBU) posts appeared on a Mumsnet message board.
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I → deny → board
Users of the long-established forum, which is known for its frank discussions of family tensions, were vexed when the AI prompt appeared in response to a user seeking advice about a family dilemma involving a neurodivergent uncle and a sick child.
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prompt → establish → uncle
The user, called AmIAComplete, had asked for “a sanity check” from other users after an awkward social interaction with their brother’s family but was met with a prompt titled AIBU Response Schema v.1.0.
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user → call → prompt
It instructed an AI to write an “interpersonal reasonableness” post and “give a clear, forum-style ruling plus brief actionable advice”.
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It → instruct → ruling
It included definitions of common Mumsnet abbreviations including AIBU, ND (neurodivergent) and DD (dear daughter).
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It → include → AIBU
The prompt said: “do not diagnose anyone; do not demean ND people; do not imply a sick child owes social performance” and said “prioritize compassion, boundaries, and de-escalation”.
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child → say → compassion
Site users called the emergence of the prompt “really creepy”, “crazy” and “so disappointing” and it fed speculation about Mumsnet’s use of AI, with one user saying: “We might as well just go and do something else then.”
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We → call → something
Mumsnet was founded in 2000.
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Mumsnet → found → 2000
It faced a 19% drop in its monthly unique user numbers in 2025 to 6.1 million and the number of posts fell by 600,000.
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number → face → 600,000
It said in its latest annual report that it was “embedding AI tools to improve productivity and enhance the user experience”.
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it → say → experience
Recent research, published in Nature, has shown that AI assistance in social media risks creating “semantic garbage” and is seen by users as less informative, “robotic” and “generic”.
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assistance → publish → users
Soon after the prompt emerged, Mumsnet denied that it used AI to write threads and said it had come from a tool to suggest thread titles which uses an OpenAI model.
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which → emerge → model
But users refused to accept this explanation and some copied the prompt into an AI and found it generated a full post.
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it → refuse → post
“We are not idiots,” said one user, MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack.
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user → say → ?
“Please can you give us a transparent explanation?”
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you → give → explanation
Mumsnet then said the prompt did not come from them and suggested it had somehow transferred from AmIAComplete’s computer.
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it → say → computer
Again users were unconvinced and speculated the prompt must have leaked from Mumsnet’s internal system.
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prompt → speculate → system
Mumsnet’s founder, Justine Roberts, joined the thread and confirmed the prompt had come from its system, which sends users’ drafts to OpenAI, which is meant to suggest a title, although this time it sent a prompt for a whole reply.
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it → join → reply
She said it “looks like an error on their side” and said: “We don’t use AI to write threads or replies on Mumsnet.”
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We → say → Mumsnet
This explanation also failed to appease users, who said they were being “fobbed off”.
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they → fail → users
“Why would OpenAI compel itself to do/try to do something so specific if it’s never been asked to do that before from your side?” said one.
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one → compel → side
“It’s like it’s appeared in the wrong place.
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it → ’ → place
“I just don’t know anymore what’s real and what isn’t sometimes!” they said.
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they → know → ?
Roberts told the Guardian: “I understand why it looked like it had ‘appeared in the wrong place’.
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it → tell → place
But nothing in our systems asks for, stores or uses anything like it.”
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nothing → ask → it
She said Mumsnet had never tested a tool that drafted posts, but it used AI for coding, advertising operations, conversational analysis and flagging potentially problematic posts to moderators.
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it → say → moderators
“Mumsnet works because the people on it are real,” Roberts said.
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Roberts → work → it
“Members trust that the advice they get comes from other parents, not a machine …
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they → trust → parents
First, these systems are less predictable than the people selling them like to suggest.
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people → sell → them
Second, users are understandably highly concerned that Mumsnet remains written by humans.”
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Mumsnet → write → humans
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