In a world where men are often expected to keep their struggles to themselves, nine people gathered in Halifax in 2016 around an idea that was as ordinary as it was important.
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A decade later, that small meeting has grown into a nationwide support network reaching thousands of men every week, carrying forward the memory of a young man whose death changed his family forever.
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A personal loss becomes a mission
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According to the BBC report, Andrew Roberts was just 23 when he died by suicide on April 5, 2016.
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His death came as a devastating shock to his family, including his mother, Elaine Roberts, and his brother-in-law, former professional rugby league player Luke Ambler.
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In the months that followed, the two began to consider how other families might be spared a similar experience.
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Their response was Andy’s Man Club, a peer-support charity named in Andrew’s memory.
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The idea was to create an informal, welcoming space where men could discuss their problems without fear of judgement, formal referrals or the pressure of finding the right words.
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The emphasis was on conversation, connection and the reassurance that nobody had to face difficult moments alone.
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According to the BBC, the first meeting was held in Halifax in 2016, with nine men attending.
What began as a small community initiative has since developed into a nationwide movement.
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From nine men to thousands
Andy’s Man Club now operates more than 350 community groups across England, Scotland and Wales, alongside online sessions.
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Its weekly meetings collectively support around 7,000 men, offering free, confidential, walk-in sessions without registration or a referral.
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The model relies on volunteers, many of whom first came to the club seeking support themselves.
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Having experienced the value of being heard, they return to help others navigate similar challenges.
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This cycle of mutual support makes those who needed help now part of the network that helps.
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One of the early attendees was Oliver Vikse, who had experienced homelessness, the breakdown of his family unit and the loss of three friends to suicide.
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Finding a place where he could speak openly and be listened to became an important turning point, demonstrating the need for spaces that make emotional honesty easier.
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Challenging the silence around men’s mental health
Ambler has also helped take the charity’s message beyond its weekly meetings through the #ItsOkayToTalk campaign.
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The initiative reached more than 100 million people worldwide, encouraging men to speak about their experiences and challenging the stigma associated with seeking support, adds BBC report.
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The need remains significant.
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Office for National Statistics data for 2024 showed that suicide in England and Wales was around three times more common among men than women.
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For Andy’s Man Club, addressing that imbalance means making support accessible, familiar and free from the barriers that can prevent people from reaching out.
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Elaine has also highlighted the importance of face-to-face contact at a time when everyday social interactions are increasingly shaped by digital communication.
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The club offers men an opportunity to meet others, build friendships and discover that struggles they may have considered deeply personal are not theirs alone.
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A decade of making a difference
The charity’s growth has been recognised through a national award, reflecting the impact of a project built around one family’s determination to turn grief into action.
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The Pride of Britain website has highlighted the story of Elaine and Ambler, whose work has helped create a lasting legacy in Andrew’s name.
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As Andy’s Man Club marks its tenth anniversary, a commemorative mural is also being unveiled at Leeds Trinity Shopping Centre, inviting members of the public to contribute to the artwork.
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The installation celebrates the people who have shaped the charity over the past decade.
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From nine attendees in Halifax to thousands of men gathering every Monday, the organisation’s expansion illustrates how a simple conversation can become the foundation of something much larger.
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conversation → gather → something
Its mission remains rooted in the same principle that inspired its creation: making it easier for men to talk, find support and feel connected before a difficult moment becomes a crisis.
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moment → remain → support
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