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Ayoub, S. (2026, October 16). Neha Kale thought she knew what home was – then she left it behind. The Sydney Morning Herald. https://www.smh.com.au/culture/books/neha-kale-thought-she-knew-what-home-was-then-she-left-it-behind-20261016-p60xk5.html?ref=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_source=rss_feed
Ayoub, Sarah. “Neha Kale thought she knew what home was – then she left it behind.” The Sydney Morning Herald, 16 Oct. 2026, https://www.smh.com.au/culture/books/neha-kale-thought-she-knew-what-home-was-then-she-left-it-behind-20261016-p60xk5.html?ref=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_source=rss_feed.
Ayoub, Sarah. “Neha Kale thought she knew what home was – then she left it behind.” The Sydney Morning Herald, October 16, 2026. https://www.smh.com.au/culture/books/neha-kale-thought-she-knew-what-home-was-then-she-left-it-behind-20261016-p60xk5.html?ref=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_source=rss_feed.
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Neha Kale, an Australian art critic and writer born in Goa, India, reflects on her concept of home in her memoir "Foreign Return." Her childhood memories are rooted in her grandfather's house by the Baga River, where she felt a strong sense of belonging. However, this feeling began to erode when her family moved to Perth, Australia, raising questions about what it means to be at home and how migration impacts one’s identity.
Kale explores these themes through the lens of art, drawing parallels with works by Australian artists like Dayanita Singh, John Brack, and Brett Whiteley. She notes that while suburbs often symbolize inclusion for some, they also signify exclusion for others, making it unclear whether a house truly represents home or something more abstract.
Her memoir delves into the complexities of cultural inheritance and the pursuit of opportunity in Australia, questioning if the migrant dream is one she would choose herself. The loss of her grandfather's house after his death further complicated Kale’s sense of place, highlighting how attachment to physical spaces can be tied to familial heritage and personal identity.