A woman named Amy, who has chosen not to disclose her real name, recounts how she almost married a serial rapist and violent abuser, Christopher Malcolm, before being rescued by her loved ones. According to Amy, she met Malcolm on Tinder in August 2023 and the relationship progressed rapidly, with them becoming engaged by Christmas. She describes experiencing severe physical and psychological abuse at Malcolm's hands, including being left "black and blue" just before visiting her terminally ill father for Father's Day. Police ultimately arrested Malcolm in September 2024 after receiving evidence from Amy's loved ones, who had reported their concerns to Scotland's disclosure scheme for domestic abuse.
Written by the local model on 2026-09-11,
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Without the interventions of her family and friends, Amy says she would have married the man who had physically and psychologically abused her for much of their relationship.
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Had the wedding gone ahead, she fears he would have eventually killed her.
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Christopher Malcolm, a serial rapist who was recently jailed for his crimes, inflicted life-changing injuries on his former fiancée - on one occasion she said he left her face "black and blue" just before she visited her terminally ill father for Father's Day.
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Amy, not her real name, told the BBC that staying in the relationship was often a means to calm the violence and survive.
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So long as Malcolm was free, she said she did not feel safe enough to report him to police.
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Her loved ones, meanwhile, grew increasingly worried.
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On several occasions they reported their concerns for Amy's welfare to Police Scotland's disclosure scheme for domestic abuse, external (known as Clare's Law in England and Wales), and handed police evidence including text messages and photos of her injuries.
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This ultimately helped officers build a strong enough case to arrest Malcolm, who was taken into custody in September 2024.
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Shortly afterwards, Amy gave a full report of the rapes, assaults and abuse she had been subjected to.
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She had been due to marry Malcolm four weeks later.
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Amy met Malcolm on the dating app Tinder around the end of August 2023.
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They went for a coffee and a walk (he didn't drink) and she remembers him being "lovely and fun" – but the relationship progressed much more quickly than she expected.
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Within the first week she had met his parents, within months they were living together and they were engaged by Christmas.
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"When we were happy it was like he was like my best friend," she said.
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"Towards the end, he could finish my sentences.
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He knew what I was thinking – it was nice, but scary at the same time."
Malcolm quickly began exerting control over Amy's life.
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She said he insisted she delete social media so their relationship remained "just between us".
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She said she was not allowed to take phone calls from her family in their home because he "didn't like their accents" – he would hide her phone or physically take it from her.
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On multiple occasions he turned up at her work and demanded that she leave early, threatening to cause a scene.
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She said she knew if she didn't comply she would have a "horrific night" when she got home.
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"It upset me a lot," said Amy.
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"That was the industry I'd worked so hard to get into and I absolutely loved my job.
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I felt like I was losing a part of myself by losing that side of work.
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I started feeling like my employees didn't respect me anymore because I was allowing someone to tell me when I was leaving work.
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I didn't know they were aware of what was going on.
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Violence was also introduced into the relationship – occasionally to begin with, but Amy said it increased to every other weekend.
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She described one incident where Malcolm was in "attack mode" for three days, had ripped up their sofa with a Stanley knife and had threatened suicide.
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Amy also described occasions when Malcolm would straddle her chest and strangle her.
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She said he would taunt her during these assaults and threaten more violence.
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He left her permanently injured and disfigured.
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During one attack, Malcolm fractured her wrist and stopped her from going to hospital, which now means she cannot hold a book in one hand.
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Amy said this happened during an argument when he ranted: "Women are always trying to control my life".
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He raped her on more than one occasion – including when a child was in the property.
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Amy was made to sit on the floor in front of the child and apologise for any fright she had caused.
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On some occasions, she described it as a "switch" being flipped in his personality.
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On others, he let her know what was about to happen.
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"He would play heavy metal first thing in the morning at 6am on the days when he would behave badly," she said.
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"I told him how much it triggered me - he knew it was a torture method, 'be prepared for what happens today'."
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Amy tried to reason with Malcolm after the attacks – saying she did not deserve to be treated this way.
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