The Aporia
In Singapore and Malaysia, pet owners, particularly Muslims, face societal stigma around loving animals like dogs, which are often seen as ritually unclean. This can lead to hidden grief when pets die, according to counselors who highlight that minimizing the emotional bond between an owner and their pet causes silent suffering. For instance, Hafeez feels he has been grieving not just for his dog but also for the societal judgment against owning a beloved companion. Even as an adult, he remains anxious about being seen walking or touching his partner's husky due to potential backlash from conservative views within Islam. The Islamic Religious Council of Singapore clarified in 2014 that while holding or touching dogs is not sinful according to their interpretation, other schools of Islamic law may disagree, contributing to the ambiguity and stress faced by pet owners.