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Benjamin French, a 46-year-old children's psychologist at Port Psychology in Port Macquarie, was suspended by the NSW Civil and Administrative Tribunal (NCAT) after an inappropriate relationship with a former patient. The suspension, which began in February 2025, was extended for another six months following a hearing on May 23, 2025.
French first treated the single mother, then aged 24, for mental health issues and her bipolar disorder diagnosis from February 2017 to December 2020. Just three months after ending their therapeutic relationship in December 2020, French added the patient on Facebook and began a romantic exchange that involved nearly 9,000 text messages.
The tribunal found that French's actions posed a substantial risk to the public due to the inappropriate nature of his behavior post-treatment. The suspension follows an investigation by the NSW Health Care Complaints Commission, which highlighted concerns over professional boundaries and patient safety.
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A NSW children's psychologist told his former female patient he wanted to 'take her upstairs' as he bombarded her with thousands of text messages, a tribunal has heard.
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Benjamin French, 46, was suspended for ‘unsatisfactory professional conduct’ over a ‘sexual in nature’ relationship that began within months of him treating the woman.
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The psychologist was investigated by the NSW Health Care Complaints Commission and stood down in February 2025, with his suspension extended for a further six months by the NSW Civil and Administrative Tribunal (NCAT) this week.
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NCAT heard French was 36 and working as a principal psychologist at Port Psychology in Port Macquarie when he first met the patient, then 24, in late 2016.
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French had 52 treatment sessions with the single mother between February 2017 and December 2020 and discussed her mental health and her bipolar disorder diagnosis.
He also offered her a job at the practice.
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Just three months after French stopped treating her in December 2020, he added her on Facebook.
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Over the next few months the pair developed their intimate relationship and started exchanging some 9,000 text messages, while meeting for dinner and walks.
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Experienced psychologist Benjamin French has been suspended after he began an inappropriate relationship with a former female patient, less than six months after treating her
Initially stood down in February 2025, French has been banned for a further six months
On May 25, 2021, French invited the woman to his house, where he ordered and paid for dinner, put his arm around her while watching TV, walked her to her car, hugged her and kissed her on the lips goodbye.
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Later that night, French texted her: 'You are always awesome to hang out with...
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The next day he asked the woman if she'd told anyone about their 'hangouts'.
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The woman said: 'Who is there to tell?
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Usually I’d tell you haha.'
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French replied: 'Ha that’s probably true!
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Oh man does that make me the dodgy guy now?...
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Well, I don't want to be that guy.
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You deserve better than that.'
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He also told the woman he was worried about being seen to have 'taken advantage' of her.
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'We are both in complex relationships which makes us both vulnerable at times,' he texted.
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The power dynamic of the relationship worries me.
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A tribunal heard the pair shared approximately 9,000 messages in just over a two-year period (including this exchange pictured on May 26, 2021)
French's texts (in grey) came one day after he invited her over to his house for dinner, before kissing her on the lips goodbye
Later that night, French said he'd wanted to 'take [her] upstairs'.
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'I haven't had that urge even when op [sic] arose with someone when I'm in a relationship as messy and f***ed up as it is,' he wrote.
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And yes I wanted to kiss you and make out with you to [sic]... didn't feel like just a one night stand vibe though.
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It felt really nice and we connect so well.
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The day after, French texted: 'Nice legs by the way.'
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It was an interaction the woman would later tell the tribunal had made her feel uncomfortable, guilty and confused.
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The tribunal also heard there was no more communication between the pair from June 2021 to February 2023, until French made contact on Facebook Messenger.
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Over the next few weeks, the woman asked him for advice on getting an Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) diagnosis.
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He agreed to 'coach her' so she could get the 'right meds' and prepared a report on her potential diagnosis, despite no longer being her psychologist and backdated it three years to coincide with their therapeutic relationship, NCAT heard.
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He was working as a principal psychologist at Port Psychology in Port Macquarie when he met the patient in late 2016
He also provided her with Oxycodone (Endone) after she complained of back pain, the tribunal was told.
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The pair ceased contact in August 2023 and two months later, the woman told her new psychologist about the relationship.
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The new psychologist then made a complaint to Australian Health Practitioner Regulation Agency (AHPRA).
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The tribunal also heard French had a six-month 'intimate relationship' with a female colleague later that year, and revealed 'inappropriate information' about her NDIS clients.
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As the treating psychologist for a number of the woman's clients, French had access to sensitive information which he divulged to her, including details about one client's suicide attempt and information about the patient's father.
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This colleague also made a complaint to AHPRA about French.
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In a judgment handed down on October 6, around 19 months after French was first suspended, NCAT upheld the complaints and found French had 'demonstrated a reckless disregard' for professional boundaries.
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French now offers literacy and 'ethical hacking' classes for children and teens on the NDIS
'Psychologists occupy positions of particular trust with vulnerable patients, making boundary violations especially serious,' the tribunal panel said.
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'We have particular concern about Mr French providing services to mental health patients who are extremely vulnerable but also in the context of family disputes which are very stressful.
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'Having regard to the paramount consideration under the National Law, the protection of the public, we consider that at this time, if Mr French were to be involved in the provision of psychological services he would pose a substantial risk to the public.'
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The Daily Mail understands French has been operating a learning support service for disabled children and teens ever since his initial suspension.
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The Psychology Council of NSW is aware of his new employment, but French’s registration as a psychologist remains suspended on the AHPRA register.
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