Ted Lasso's Season 4 finale delves into deeper personal conversations between Ted and his son Henry about Ted's father, Jim Lasso's death. Initially, Ted tells Henry that his grandfather died from falling down steps but later admits to Beard that this was a lie, as revealed in earlier seasons where Ted disclosed to Dr. Sharon Fieldstone that his father committed suicide when he was 16 years old. The episode culminates with Ted planning another conversation with Henry about the truth of his grandfather's death, though the specifics of their discussion remain undisclosed to viewers.
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In the highly anticipated Season 4 finale of *Ted Lasso*, titled "Still Alive"/"The Departing Lass," viewers learned more about Ted's father Jim Lasso's death. Earlier in the series, Ted revealed to Dr. Sharon Fieldstone that his father died by suicide when Ted was 16 years old. However, during a conversation with his son Henry, Ted told a different story to avoid burdening him emotionally, saying his father fell down some steps and hit his head.
The episode delved into themes of life and death through multiple perspectives: Mae’s death inspired Rebecca to live her own life more fully, while it prompted Henry to ask Ted about his grandfather's passing. Despite the sensitive nature of the topic, Ted assured Henry that he was fine on stairs and promised not to leave him soon.
This episode highlighted the contrast between Ted's emotional honesty with Dr. Fieldstone and his protective approach toward his son, showcasing how different people cope with loss in various ways.
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As expected, on the heels of such an emotional penultimate episode, Ted Lasso‘s highly anticipated Season 4 finale packed a gut punch.
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What we didn’t expect, however, was that some of the deepest scenes would be between Ted (Jason Sudeikis) and his son Henry (Grant Feeley).
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Spoilers for Ted Lasso Season 4, Episode 10 ahead.
Episode 410, “Still Alive”/”The Departing Lass,” looked at life and death through various different lenses.
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Mae’s (Annette Badland) death helped Ted prioritize his work/life balance and inspired him to step down as Manager of AFC’s women’s team.
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The loss reminded Rebecca to start living her own life.
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And losing Mae got Henry thinking about how his grandfather, Ted’s dad, Jim Lasso, died.
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“How did your dad die?” Henry asked Ted.
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“Nana told me he fell down some steps and hit his head.
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“Um.. well, yeah,” Ted hesitantly replied.
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Before he could elaborate or think too hard about his response, Henry asked if he was around Ted’s age when he died, and Ted sensed his fear.
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I’m good on the stairs.
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You ain’t gonna lose me any time soon.
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I promise,” Ted assured Henry.
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And the two moved on.
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When chatting with Beard at work, however, Ted brought up his lie, saying, “Henry was asking for some straight talk the other day, and I went a little too serpentine on him for my liking.”
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Beard reassured that Ted he probably made the right call by shielding his son from the truth, but the lie was clearly still weighing on Ted.
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So later in the episode, when he walked in on Henry struggling with homework, Ted decided it was time for another father/son heart-to-heart.
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“I’m sorry I missed so many games this season, but I just want to let you know that I’m gonna shift some stuff around on my side of things and make sure that won’t happen next year.
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I promise,” Ted told Henry.
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“And there’s actually something else I want to talk about with you.
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It’s about how your grandfather passed away…”
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As the two talked, the camera zoomed out so we couldn’t hear the crucial conversation.
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The scene even led some viewers to ask, “How did Ted Lasso’s dad die?”
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So we’re here to refresh your memory.
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How Did Ted Lasso’s Dad Die?
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At the end of Season 2, Episode 8, “Man City,” after experiencing panic attacks and seeing Jamie’s (Phil Dunster) dad disrespect him in the locker room, Ted tearfully called Dr. Sharon Fieldstone (Sarah Niles) and told her that his dad died by suicide.
“My father killed himself when I was 16.
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That happened to me and, uh, to my mom,” he explained.
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Ted went into greater detail about his relationship with his dad and his death in Season 2, Episode 10, “No Weddings and a Funeral,” which showed him and the team supporting Rebecca at her own father’s funeral.
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Throughout the episode, Ted struggled with his own feelings about his late father.
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And before attending the funeral, he called Dr. Fieldstone for help.
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When she paid him a visit, Ted revealed that he never went to his dad’s funeral when he was a teen, “‘Cause he quit.
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You know, he quit on his family.
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He quit on himself.
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And I hated him for that.
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I think I still hate him for it.”
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When Dr. Fieldstone asked Ted what happened with his dad, he said, “Me and a bunch of high school buddies were gonna do a marathon of all them Jason movies that night.
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So I, you know, came home from school as usual and I went up to my room and — bang! I opened up the door and, there he was.
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[And I just] screamed.
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Then I called my mom at work and let her know that she needed to come home.”
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“I’m sorry that happened to you, Ted.
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