Shelvy Neal, an 80-year-old woman from Macon-Bibb County, Georgia, hosted her own "FOMO funeral" to ensure she wouldn't miss out on the tributes at her actual death. The event, held over the weekend, attracted around 100 attendees who came to celebrate Neal's life and connections. She wore a sash reading 'Back by popular demand' and the cake read, "She refuses to miss anything... especially her own funeral." Neal expressed that she hopes this will be easier on her family when her time comes and wants a simple service instead of a traditional funeral.
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Shelvy Neal, an 80-year-old woman from Macon-Bibb County, Georgia, organized a unique celebration of life event over the weekend. This "FOMO funeral" allowed her to enjoy tributes and farewells while she was still alive. Located roughly 85 miles southeast of Atlanta along the Ocmulgee River, Neal expressed that it would be about celebrating both Christ and her own life experiences spanning 80 years.
Neal came up with this idea after selling a property to a funeral home in 2020, which she had owned for around 25 years, shortly after her husband's passing in March. Her daughter supported the concept, leading to an event that celebrated her birthday and life achievements. The celebration was organized at what used to be Neal’s family-owned land before it became a funeral home property.
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A Georgia woman was feeling major FOMO that she would miss all the tributes at her funeral, so she planned one that she could actually attend.
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Shelvy Neal turned her 80th birthday into an unusual celebration when she hosted her own funeral over the weekend, celebrating her life and the connections she’s made.
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she → turn → life
Neal, who lives in Macon-Bibb County, located in central Georgia along the Ocmulgee River, roughly 85 miles southeast of Atlanta, called it a ‘FOMO funeral,’ referencing her fear of missing out.
‘It’s gonna be about celebrating Christ and my life, 80 years of my life,’ Neal told WMAZ before the event.
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The funeral was organized at a property that Neal and her husband, Gary, owned for about 25 years before they sold it to a funeral home in 2020.
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they → organize → 2020
After her husband passed away in March, Neal started thinking about her own funeral, the outlet reported.
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She then got an idea of having her own funeral.
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She → get → funeral
‘I said, “You know, I’d love to be at my own funeral”,’ Neal said, adding that her daughter supported the idea too.
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daughter → say → idea
Shelvy Neal, 80, celebrated her birthday with an unusual twist.
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She hosted funeral for herself and invited her closed one to attend
The idea came to Neal after her husband, Gary, passed away in March
Neal and her family planned the funeral just like the birthday girl wanted it to be.
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The lady wore a sash that read ‘Back by popular demand’ for the funeral.
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Her family celebrated with a cake that read, ‘She refuses to miss anything… especially her own funeral.
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As many as 100 people attended this unusual farewell.
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Neal was the guest speaker, and she invited family and friends to say a few words in remembrance.
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‘If they want to, they can say bad things, but I’m gonna be there, and I might cut the mic.
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I’m gonna control my own funeral,’ Neal had told the outlet.
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An attendee shared moments from the FOMO funeral on social media with a photo that featured a coffin with a cardboard printout of Neal lying inside it.
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‘We went to our first funeral/birthday party.
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We sure do love this sweet lady,’ the person captioned the post.
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She organized the funeral at a property that the couple had owned for about 25 years before they sold it to a funeral home in 2020
The family celebrated Neal's funeral with cake and speeches.
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She even got her own flowers for the funeral
Neal told the outlet that she wanted the funeral to be fun.
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‘I think it will be easier on my family to do something like this, but also, you know, funeral is F-U-N.
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And I like fun,’ she said.
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When her time really comes, Neal said she wants a simple service instead of a traditional funeral.
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