The author reflects on her experience stepping out of her usual Los Angeles neighborhood comfort zone to visit a bar in West Hollywood, noting how the city's distinct neighborhoods often dictate social circles and identity. She observes that while many people prefer environments that reflect their self-image, venturing into unfamiliar areas can offer unexpected pleasures and new friendships. The piece emphasizes the benefits of breaking out of one’s usual scene by highlighting a memorable interaction with flamboyant car dealers in West Hollywood, which contrasts with her typical Eastside social circles of writers and artists.
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Mary Dahm, writing for the New York Post, explores how Los Angeles' neighborhoods have become identities, with residents often staying within their own communities and avoiding others due to perceived differences. For instance, a resident of Silver Lake might refuse an invitation to a bar in West Hollywood because it doesn't align with their sense of identity. This creates silos among the diverse areas of LA, such as Santa Monica, known for its corporate wellness scene, and West Hollywood, associated with upscale dining.
The article highlights how logistical barriers like sparse public transit contribute but also notes that residents prefer environments that affirm their self-image. Dahm argues that staying within one’s neighborhood creates a mirrored view of oneself, reducing the city's rich tapestry into isolated bubbles. She suggests that venturing out can be liberating and reveal more about LA’s complex nature beyond predefined stereotypes.
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On a Friday night in Los Angeles, I ask my friend who lives in Silver Lake to come to a bar in West Hollywood.
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who → ask → Hollywood
Except I know what she is going to say.
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she → know → what
“That’s not really my scene.”
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That → ’ → ?
Los Angeles has a way of turning neighborhoods into identities.
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Angeles → have → identities
But when we only go places that reflect ours back at us, we reduce this richly layered city into something much smaller.
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we → go → something
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Report → start → news
And we do the same thing to ourselves.
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we → do → ourselves
We all know the drill.
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We → know → drill
Silver Lake says hipster intellectual.
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Lake → say → intellectual
Santa Monica says corporate wellness.
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Monica → say → wellness
West Hollywood says something involving a reservation and very good lighting.
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Hollywood → say → reservation
We sort ourselves into Eastsiders and Westsiders, then regard crossing La Brea as an invitation to be lobotomized.
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We → sort → invitation
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To be fair, some of this resistance is logistical.
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some → download → resistance
In a city with minimal public transit, straying too far from your neighborhood can be an activity in itself.
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straying → stray → itself
But traffic is not the only thing keeping us in our lanes.
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traffic → keep → lanes
We like places that confirm our idea of ourselves.
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that → like → ourselves
I should know.
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I → know → ?
I’m a central LA girl with a long Eastside past.
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I → ’m → past
A former English teacher who goes to gallery openings for fun and distrusts any neighborhood with an Erewhon.
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who → go → Erewhon
I know exactly what my scene should be.
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scene → know → ?
Still, I have a PSA.
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I → have → PSA
Which brings me back to West Hollywood.
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Which → bring → Hollywood
Specifically, the lobby bar at the Edition Hotel, a place that would send some of my Eastside intellectual friends into anaphylactic shock.
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that → send → shock
This is a place where you’ll see sunglasses at midnight, rappers wearing enormous silver chains and women whose heels could be used as murder weapons.
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heels → see → weapons
One night I met four men who dealt in exotic cars, each wearing a watch larger than the last.
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each → meet → last
Their shirts were unbuttoned to varying degrees of optimism.
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shirts → vary → optimism
They had the sort of hair that could survive a hurricane.
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that → have → hurricane
A fact I did not mention when I let them buy me a drink.
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them → mention → drink
Within minutes I was folded into the group, trading outrageous stories and laughing as they roasted each other with the tenderness of old friends.
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they → fold → friends
Amid endless talk of a male loneliness epidemic, here were four grown men loudly affectionate and plainly delighted by each other.
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men → delight → other
They were also effortlessly fun to flirt with.
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They → flirt → ?
The type who could approach women without first holding a committee meeting in their heads.
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who → approach → heads
Honestly, my nerd friends on the Eastside could really stand to learn some of that swagger.
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friends → stand → swagger
I left wanting to organize an exchange program.
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I → leave → program
For years, I mostly stayed on the Eastside and spent time around people like me: writers, artists and people who own a suspicious number of New Yorker tote bags.
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who → stay → bags
Now I can spend Friday night with Ferrari dealers in West Hollywood and Saturday at a literary event in Los Feliz.
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I → spend → Feliz
I don’t need the Ferrari dealers to develop strong opinions about the future of independent bookselling.
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dealers → need → bookselling
I don’t need the poets to start playing golf.
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poets → need → golf
I like different things about both.
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I → like → both
The mistake is expecting them to be all the people you need.
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you → expect → ?
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