In about AD 175, Roman emperor and philosopher Marcus Aurelius wrote of his day ahead: “I will encounter busybodies, ingrates, egomaniacs, liars, the jealous and cranks.”
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Marcus was a keen observer of life, and as a police officer myself, I always sought to be the same.
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I → seek → officer
If there’s one thing I learnt, there is always a lot more going on under the surface than first appears.
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I → ’ → surface
Oh, and that people can do remarkable things: good, bad and stupid.
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I’ve dealt with plenty of criminals.
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I → deal → criminals
Mostly the bad ones because they’re easier to catch.
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they → ’re → ?
People might be surprised how common criminality is; many crooks actually have regular day jobs to pay the bills.
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crooks → have → bills
I had to laugh at the burglar brought into the station one night who pleaded to be let out in the morning, as he was expected on the worksite to resume his career as a tradie.
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he → have → tradie
Admirable dedication, I guess.
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I → guess → ?
Of course many crooks are engaged in white-collar crime, hiding behind their computers.
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crooks → engage → computers
It’s sobering to realise that criminals walk among us.
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criminals → ’ → us
It’s just that most don’t recognise them.
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most → ’ → them
There are cold-hearted killers out there, and I’ve met some of them, but most crooks are decidedly ordinary and often quite pathetic.
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crooks → be → them
One serious offender came into the cells yelling abuse and issuing commands to his underlings to “tell the dogs nothin’” when interviewed.
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offender → come → nothin’
After five minutes of being alone in a cell, he was crying and asking to call his mother.
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he → cry → mother
No doubt he would have lied about that to his cronies because when caught, most people lie.
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people → lie → cronies
I snagged a burglar literally half in and half out of the hole he’d made in a front door, but like the Shaggy song he said, “It wasn’t me,” even with the stolen jewellery in his pockets.
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It → snag → pockets
Similarly, after seeing a young offender commit a crime and flee, I was soon speaking to him and his mother at the front door of his home.
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He nervously denied everything, and his mum, who knew full well that her little angel had only just arrived home, declared he had been with her all morning.
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he → deny → her
Having just used his mother to cover for his illicit activities, this young bloke, now emboldened, began to say the most disgusting things about my own dear mother, while standing behind his.
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bloke → use → his
As well as wannabe criminal masterminds, police deal frequently with regular people.
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police → deal → people
There is often a lot going on underneath a happy veneer, but sometimes the secrets burst into the open.
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secrets → be → open
After a physical fight between a successful (based on the car parked outside) businessman and a female victim, it soon became clear that the man didn’t live there and was married to someone else.
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man → base → someone
He begged us to keep his affair quiet, but after the case made its way to court, I’m sure I wasn’t the only one surprised when the man’s wife arrived to give a character reference for her wayward spouse.
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wife → beg → spouse
Evidently, he had fessed up at some point.
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he → fesse → point
The lives of other families are torn apart by violence, poor mental health, gambling debts or substance abuse problems.
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Because life is complex, and often not easy to navigate.
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life → navigate → ?
I learned that quickly.
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Sometimes despair leads to suicide or attempts.
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despair → lead → suicide
I’ve twice rescued people from suicide attempts in what might have been their final moments.
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what → rescue → attempts
What makes a person that desperate?
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person → make → ?
I got an answer once when I sat with a young person after an attempt, and they opened up about why – they wanted to change sex, and their parents refused to accept this complexity of their child’s life.
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parents → get → life
I wonder if some of the belligerent commentators on “woke” ideology and gender issues have ever had a conversation like this?
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some → wonder → this
I’ve attended the house of a celebrity who had made an attempt on their life, and I encountered an AFL footballer whose depression was so obvious that I had to intervene.
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I → attend → footballer
This was back when sportspeople didn’t take time off to address their personal demons.
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sportspeople → take → demons
That this is widely accepted now has to be a step forward.
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accepted → accept → ?
Police themselves are particularly susceptible to deteriorating mental health, due at least in part to the trauma they are regularly exposed to.
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they → deteriorate → trauma
Between 2000 and 2020, more than 100 serving Australian police officers took their own lives.
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officers → serve → lives
Plenty more have done it after retiring.
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Our brains can only take so much.
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brains → take → much
…and 10 more, not listed.
The Aporia
