Danielle Meitiv's phone was blowing up.
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phone → blow → ?
Her friends were forwarding her news articles, alerting her that her story was in the papers again.
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story → forward → papers
Her children were now both adults, her son 21 and her daughter 18, and it had been over a decade since she was publicly shamed and ostracized as America's worst mom.
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she → sham → mom
Then she opened the links.
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she → open → links
The headlines were about a different mother but, though the details varied ever so slightly, the story was nearly the same.
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story → vary → mother
She lived in Williamsburg, Virginia, 45 minutes away from Meitiv's Silver Springs, Maryland, home and she had been accused by Child Protective Services (CPS) of child neglect and abuse.
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she → live → neglect
'I thought, "Oh, this poor woman.
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I → think → woman
I know exactly what she's going through,"' Meitiv, who experienced her own 'free-range parenting' scandal a decade ago, told the Daily Mail.
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who → know → Mail
Parkinson and her five-year-old son Sam spent the morning of Wednesday, June 5, walking through their gated community of Ford's Colony and had just arrived home for lunch.
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Parkinson → spend → lunch
Sam, who loved to collect goose feathers from the edges of the pond just half a mile away, wanted to go back out and get some more.
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who → love → more
Parkinson, 36, who was weeks away from giving birth to her fifth child, agreed Sam could go while she fixed lunch.
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she → give → lunch
After about 20 or 30 minutes Sam returned, with a handful of feathers, and a security guard.
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Sam → return → feathers
Karyann Parkinson was convicted of contributing to the delinquency of a minor after letting her five-year-old son walk a half a mile on his own.
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son → convict → own
She is appealing the court's decision
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She → appeal → decision
Five-year-old Sam who loved to collect goose feathers from the edges of the pond just half a mile away, returned home with a suspicious security guard
The headlines about Parkinson brought back a flood of memories for Danielle Meitiv, who faced similar charges in 2015 for her parenting style
One of their neighbors had seen the boy by himself and phoned security.
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One → love → security
A guard was sent to find Sam and when he did, Sam was asked to get in the patrol vehicle that would take him home.
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that → send → him
The five-year-old told the guard he wasn't allowed to get into cars with strangers but offered to walk the guard back to his house.
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he → tell → house
When they arrived Parkinson, who had just graduated from William & Mary Law School in Williamsburg, Virginia, in May, was confused as to why anyone was concerned about Sam's ability to get home.
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anyone → arrive → ability
But the guard was firm and insisted Parkinson had broken the law.
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Parkinson → insist → law
He called the police, who in turn called CPS.
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who → call → CPS
Two weeks later, a warrant was issued for Parkinson's arrest.
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warrant → issue → arrest
Last month, the mother of five was charged and convicted of contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
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mother → charge → minor
Her name was also added to the Virginia Abuse and Neglect Registry, where it will remain for seven years.
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it → add → years
Parkinson, however, is not backing down without a fight.
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Parkinson → back → fight
She is appealing both her conviction and the finding against her by the James City County Department of Social Services.
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She → appeal → Services
A jury trial has been set for February 2027, according to online court records.
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trial → set → records
Upon hearing of Parkinson's conviction, Meitiv reached out to her.
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Meitiv → hear → her
'She emailed me back,' Meitiv said.
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Meitiv → email → me
She said, "Thank you so much for being the start of the revolution."
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She → say → revolution
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The free-range parenting movement, which encourages children to learn independence at an early age, was founded by Lenore Skenazy in 2008 after she let her nine-year-old son ride the New York City subway alone.
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son → encourage → subway
'I have to give credit – I stand on Lenore's shoulders,' Meitiv said.
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Meitiv → have → shoulders
I'm just America's worst mom, so I don't want to take the title from Lenore.'
Meitiv, Skenazy and other parents in the movement argue that helicopter parenting is far more dangerous than free-range parenting because it prevents children from developing self-efficacy and risk management skills.
In 2015, Meitiv was investigated by Child Protective Services after she allowed her children to walk home from a park without adult supervision
The scandal that plagued Meitiv over a decade ago resurfaced after Parkinson was convicted of something similar
Their arguments have been amplified in recent years by the publication of Jonathan Haidt's The Anxious Generation, which claims that overprotective parenting has led to a sharp increase in anxiety among children.
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parenting → want → children
In 2015, Meitiv and her husband made global headlines for letting their six-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son walk home alone from a park in downtown Silver Springs.
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daughter → make → Springs
'My husband and I had decided that they were old enough, and we had planned that we would drop them off at a playground,' she recalled.
'
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she → decide → playground
Somebody must have called the police.'
An officer brought her children home and shortly after CPS showed up at their door.
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CPS → call → door
For six months, the Meitivs fought against the neglect charges.
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Meitivs → fight → charges
Eventually, the charges were dropped, but the experience, Meitiv said, was still 'harrowing' for the family.
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Meitiv → drop → family
The police kept going past our house.
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police → keep → house
They would show up when the kids got off the bus to make sure somebody was there to pick them up.
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somebody → show → them
Hearing that someone else was going through the same situation all these years later shocked Meitiv, especially because it happened in a state that has passed a reasonable childhood independence law.
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that → hear → law
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