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D’Amico, L. (2026, November 2). In Defense of Romantasy. The Dispatch. https://thedispatch.com/article/romance-fantasy-novels-maas/
D’Amico, LuElla. “In Defense of Romantasy.” The Dispatch, 2 Nov. 2026, https://thedispatch.com/article/romance-fantasy-novels-maas/.
D’Amico, LuElla. “In Defense of Romantasy.” The Dispatch, November 2, 2026. https://thedispatch.com/article/romance-fantasy-novels-maas/.
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A few years ago, during a young-adult Bible study session, a participant expressed concerns that romance novels are harmful to women because they set impossibly high standards for real-life relationships. The author, LuElla D’Amico, reflects on how romantic heroes in these books create unrealistic expectations, potentially making it difficult for men to measure up. The article includes illustrations by Noah Hickey and images from Getty Images and public domain sources via Wikimedia Commons.
A few years ago, I was sitting in a young-adult Bible study when the earnest and pimply young man leading our discussion pronounced, without hesitation, that romance novels were dangerous for women.
They created impossibly high expectations for husbands, he explained. How could an ordinary man compete with those brawny, idyllic heroes of romance?