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Ilhan Omar’s Muslim husband ‘disgusted’ by ‘dirty dandy brother’ she allegedly wed coming to live with them: source

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Sultan, K. (2026, October 28). Ilhan Omar’s Muslim husband ‘disgusted’ by ‘dirty dandy brother’ she allegedly wed coming to live with them: source. New York Post. https://nypost.com/2026/10/28/us-news/ilhan-omars-muslim-husband-disgusted-by-dirty-dandy-brother-she-wed-coming-to-live-with-them-source/

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New York Post · collected 2026-10-29 · by Kamal Sultan

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A family friend of Ilhan Omar claims that Omar's first husband Ahmed Hirsi was embarrassed when her "effeminate brother," Ahmed Nur Said Elmi, came to live with them in Minnesota after Omar married him. This marriage is alleged to have been a legal arrangement to help Elmi obtain residency status in the U.S., despite an earlier Islamic ceremony with Hirsi that wasn't recognized by the state. The friend says Hirsi used strong language describing Elmi's presence as "disgusting" and feared Elmi would negatively influence his children.
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Ilhan Omar's first husband, Ahmed Hirsi, reportedly felt "disgusted" by her alleged second marriage to an effeminate man in 2009. A family friend told the New York Post that when Ahmed Nur Said Elmi came to live with them in Minnesota, it caused tension within their relationship and among their community. Hirsi, who was popular in Minnesota's Somali community after settling there with his family, expressed discomfort with Elmi's flamboyant style of dress, which is frowned upon in Somali culture. This situation reportedly strained the couple’s marriage as Omar had only been married to Hirsi through an Islamic ceremony not recognized by the state, allowing her to legally marry Elmi for immigration purposes.

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📰 Ilhan Omar's Husband Controversy
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Kamal Sultan
8 article(s) here · 1 carrying a prediction
🔮 The legal marriage was reportedly so he could get “papers” to start a new life in the US, as The Post has previously reported.
🔮 “If there was a competent doctor in the room that day, it would have gone very differently.
🔮 Omar allegedly would tell people at the time her sibling was looking for “papers,” referencing immigration documents such as a green card. “No one knew there had been a wedding [to Elmi] until the media turned up the marriage certificate years later,” he said at the time.
🔮 And communist-linked groups in the US may be working to bring that hell to the nation’s capital.
🔮 Nur Omar Mohamed has been accused of hiding his military past from US authorities when he arrived and claimed asylum with his family in 1995 — which could have disqualified him from claiming refugee status.
🔮 He was part and parcel of those who caused and created the mayhem they ‘fled’ to live comfortably in the United States.”
🔮 Among those duped was Seth William Baker, a lance corporal from Gilbert, Arizona, who served as a bulk fuel specialist with the 4th Marine Logistics Group.
🔮 “The only person who could have fired the gun is the dad.
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Elmi PERSON · 12× Ahmed PERSON · 8× Hirsi PERSON · 8× Omar PERSON · 8× The Post ORG · 5× Ilhan PERSON · 4× Minnesota GPE · 4× Somali NORP · 3× London GPE · 2× Post ORG · 2×

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Ahmed used very strong words and said it was ‘disgusting.’” Hirsi is said to have been at the heart of Minnesota’s Somali community and was hugely popular after settling there with his family. “He was very sociable and had his finger on the pulse of everything that was happening,” the source told The Post.
framing: assertive · carried by 1 article(s) · first seen 2026-10-31
🔮 The legal marriage was reportedly so he could get “papers” to start a new life in the US, as The Post has previously reported.

Claims (43 extracted, 4 hedged)

Ilhan Omar’s first husband was “embarrassed” when her effeminate “brother” — who she is accused of marrying — came to live with them in Minnesota, a family friend told The Post. asserted
friend → embarrass → Post
The congresswoman (D-Minn.) had two young children with Ahmed Hirsi, when she suddenly split from him in 2009. asserted
she → have → 2009
She then quickly married an “extremely feminine Somali guy from London,” Ahmed Nur Said Elmi, fond of wearing short shorts with cowboy boots. asserted
She → marry → boots
She was able to do this as she had only been wed to Ahmed in a 2002 Islamic ceremony which was not recognized by the state. asserted
which → do → state
One of Hirsi’s close friends claimed Omar and her first husband were actually still together, and Elmi suddenly moving in caused strain on their relationship. asserted
moving → claim → relationship
The legal marriage was reportedly so he could get “papers” to start a new life in the US, as The Post has previously reported. uncertain
Post → get → US
“The whole community was gossiping about [Elmi] when he first arrived,” the source, who wished to remain anonymous, told The Post. asserted
who → gossip → Post
“He was walking around in tight female clothing, which is heavily frowned upon in the Somali community, so I went to ask Ahmed about it. asserted
I → walk → it
“He told me that it was his wife’s brother from London and that Ilhan had ‘embarrassed all of us by bringing him here’. asserted
Ilhan → tell → him
Ahmed used very strong words and said it was ‘disgusting.’” Hirsi is said to have been at the heart of Minnesota’s Somali community and was hugely popular after settling there with his family. “He was very sociable and had his finger on the pulse of everything that was happening,” the source told The Post. asserted
source → use → Post
“Ahmed was known by his nickname, South Side. asserted
Ahmed → know → nickname
He is a good man and has friends all over town.” But the source claimed to have noticed a change in Hirsi when an Elmi moved to Minneapolis. asserted
Elmi → have → Minneapolis
“All of the Somalis in Minneapolis were gossiping and trying to find out who this guy was,” he said. asserted
he → gossip → Minneapolis
“Then everyone realized it was Nur Said Elmi’s son, and Ilhan’s brother. asserted
it → realize → ?
Everybody was shocked.” asserted
Everybody → shock → ?
“He explained that she had married him legally to get him papers and that he was only Islamically married to her. asserted
he → explain → her
“He said her brother was ‘pure trash’ who had embarrassed their whole family and was complaining about why Ilhan had to bring him over.” asserted
Ilhan → say → him
The source claimed that Elmi was shunned in the community. “I used to see Elmi in my neighborhood but we kept our separate ways because if people saw me with him, everyone would think differently of me,” he added. asserted
he → claim → me
“The others used to compare his behavior to his father, Nur, a respected military general. asserted
others → use → father
Ahmed said he was bringing a bad name to the family.” asserted
he → say → family
Hirsi allegedly did not want Elmi “anywhere near his children” — Isra Hirsi, now 23, and Adnan, 20. uncertain
Elmi → want → children
Their third child, Ilwad, was born in 2012 while Omar was still married to Elmi. asserted
Omar → bear → Elmi
“Ahmed used to insult her brother all the time and say nasty things,” the source told The Post. asserted
source → use → Post
“He told me, ‘He’s an uncle to my children and I am scared he is going to influence them with his effeminate lifestyle.’” asserted
he → tell → lifestyle
Hirsi, Omar and Elmi did not respond to The Post’s requests for comment. asserted
Hirsi → respond → comment
The family friend claimed Elmi was the main source of friction between Hirsi and Omar. asserted
Elmi → claim → Hirsi
“Ahmed and Ilhan used to argue over her brother all the time,” he told The Post. asserted
he → use → Post
“I saw them arguing and shouting in public.” asserted
them → see → public
He claimed that Hirsi was full of relief once Elmi left Minnesota around 2012. asserted
Elmi → claim → 2012
“Ahmed praised God for taking him away from his family,” the source said. asserted
source → praise → family
Omar has been marred by allegations that she fraudulently married her second husband and alleged brother Elmi for immigration purposes since 2016. asserted
she → mar → 2016
The Minnesota congresswoman, who arrived in the US as a refugee from Somalia in 1995, has vehemently denied these allegations. asserted
who → arrive → allegations
Omar first applied for a marriage license with Hirsi in 2002, though she later said, “we never finalized the application and thus were never legally married.” asserted
we → apply → application
According to Omar, the pair separated in 2008, then reconciled around four years later and legally married in 2018. uncertain
pair → accord → 2018
Omar was married to Elmi from 2009 to 2017. asserted
Omar → marry → 2017
On their marriage application, both listed their marital address as a property in Columbia Heights, a suburb in Minneapolis. asserted
both → list → Minneapolis
Hirsi also used that address for a business license. asserted
Hirsi → use → license
Omar claims that she and Elmi split in 2011, but that it took a few years to finish the paperwork. uncertain
it → claim → paperwork
The Post previously reported joint tax filings between Omar and Hirsi in 2014 and 2015, while she was legally married to Elmi. asserted
she → report → Elmi
Those filings were later corrected. asserted
filings → correct → ?
…and 3 more, not listed.
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