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Cradle to career: Japanese parents take over dating, job hunting for children. (2026, October 28). South China Morning Post. https://www.scmp.com/news/asia/east-asia/article/3372372/cradle-career-japanese-parents-take-over-dating-job-hunting-children
“Cradle to career: Japanese parents take over dating, job hunting for children.” South China Morning Post, 28 Oct. 2026, https://www.scmp.com/news/asia/east-asia/article/3372372/cradle-career-japanese-parents-take-over-dating-job-hunting-children.
“Cradle to career: Japanese parents take over dating, job hunting for children.” South China Morning Post, October 28, 2026. https://www.scmp.com/news/asia/east-asia/article/3372372/cradle-career-japanese-parents-take-over-dating-job-hunting-children.
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As of 2026, Japanese parents are increasingly taking over their children's dating and job hunting processes through a practice known as "proxy matchmaking." The Association of Parents of Marriage Proposal Information, which started organizing such events in 2005 with just a few dozen participants, now regularly draws around 200 attendees at major city gatherings. Regional meetups still attract approximately 30 people but are also growing in popularity. During these events, parents bring photos and detailed profiles of their children to facilitate finding suitable marriage partners for them, reflecting the changing dynamics in Japanese family life where parental involvement is becoming more pronounced.