Story summary
On September 4, Antoinette Forbes, a 53-year-old mother and corporate public relations executive for pharmaceutical giant Eli Lilly, vanished from her home in Washington DC without taking her phone, wallet, laptop, or car. Her disappearance has alarmed her family, who describe her as devoted to her ten-year-old son, whom she would never willingly leave behind. The day Forbes disappeared, police found her front door unlocked, adding to the mystery.
Russell Ashford, 65, the father of Forbes' child and her ex-boyfriend, was detained in Beaver County, Pennsylvania on a warrant related to violating his probation rather than being charged as a suspect in Forbes' disappearance. Five years ago, Ashford had been convicted for severely beating Forbes at their shared home in Chevy Chase. His current detention stems from an alleged violation of probation involving attempting to collect the couple's son from summer camp without permission.
Despite the arrest, police have not named Ashford as a suspect in Forbes' vanishing case and no charges related to her disappearance have been filed against him. The family remains worried about Forbes' safety, given her unexplained departure and the recent detention of her ex-partner.
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The ex-boyfriend of a Washington DC mother who mysteriously vanished from her home without her phone, wallet or car has been detained in Pennsylvania as fears mount over her fate.
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Russell Ashford, 65, the father of missing Antoinette Forbes' ten-year-old son, is being held in Beaver County on a warrant accusing him of violating his probation.
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Forbes, 53, has been missing since September 4, when she disappeared from her home on Nebraska Avenue near American University.
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Her dog, phones, wallet, laptop and car were all left behind, while the front door was reportedly found unlocked.
Police have not named Ashford as a suspect in Forbes' disappearance and he has not been charged with any crime related to her vanishing.
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His detention instead stems from an alleged violation of probation connected to a previous criminal case involving Forbes.
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According to the warrant, Ashford violated his probation when he allegedly attempted to collect the couple's son from summer camp at American University in July.
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Five years ago, Ashford was convicted of severely beating Forbes at the Chevy Chase home they shared, according to court documents cited by Fox 5.
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Antoinette Forbes, 53, pictured with her ten-year-old son, vanished from her Washington DC home on September 4 without her phone, wallet or car.
A neighbor intervened and was credited with saving Forbes' life.
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Ashford was sentenced to 15 years in prison but only served nine months behind bars.
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This summer, his guilty verdict was struck down and he received probation before judgment.
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Under the conditions of his probation, Ashford was prohibited from having contact with Forbes or their son.
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Former FBI agent Ken Gray emphasized that Ashford's detention is not directly connected to Forbes' disappearance.
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'[Ashford] is not being charged with her disappearance,' Gray told Fox 5.
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'He is being charged with a violation of his terms of his release here.
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'It's not unusual for law enforcement to use violations like that to hold a person while they are trying to put together the case to be able to get an arrest warrant in the event that they need it for much worse things happening to Antoinette,' he explained.
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Forbes' unexplained disappearance has baffled her family because they insist the devoted mother would never voluntarily leave her son.
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Forbes' family has described her as a devoted mother who would never willingly leave her young son or disappear without warning
The corporate public relations executive, who worked for pharmaceutical giant Eli Lilly, had been planning a trip to Florida with her sisters before she disappeared.
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‘We’re in absolute shock and horror,’ her sister Aileen Forbes told CNN.
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‘We have our own very close-knit immediate family, but we have a very large extended family.
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We’re horrified.’
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Aileen became alarmed after her sister failed to respond ahead of a planned catch-up.
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Because she was sick, she asked a friend who lived nearby to check Forbes' house.
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The friend found the front door unlocked with Forbes nowhere to be seen.
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‘[Her son] is Antoinette's life,’ Aileen said.
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‘She would never leave her son.
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She wouldn’t leave her dog.
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She wouldn’t leave her sister who needs her.’
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Forbes' home is now being treated as a crime scene, according to her family, while her vehicle has also been examined by investigators.
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Her relatives have not been allowed back inside the house.
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Forbes' Nebraska Avenue home is being treated as a crime scene after the missing mother's front door was reportedly found unlocked and her belongings left inside
Gray said the steps being taken by investigators indicated how seriously authorities were treating the disappearance, while stressing it remains a missing-person case.
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‘Whenever there's a problem involving either spouses or, in this case, the father of her child, that person is always going to be a suspect in the case,’ he said.
‘They're not at that point yet.
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This is a missing person case, but this may turn into something else.’
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He added: ‘Her house is being treated as a crime scene.
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Her car is being treated as a crime scene.’
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Friends and relatives gathered at a church in Northwest DC over the weekend for a vigil as the search continued.
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Despite the increasingly troubling circumstances, Forbes' family is refusing to give up hope that she will return home alive.
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‘I am trying really hard not to even conceive of that because it would mean that my family is destroyed,’ Aileen told CNN.
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‘I’m still trying very hard to keep the faith and the strong, harsh belief that I’ve had from the start that my sister is alive.’
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Her family is now appealing for anyone who may have seen Forbes or noticed anything unusual around the time she disappeared to contact investigators.
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‘We need to know what happened,’ Aileen said.
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